Monday, October 29, 2012

Curly Haircare Session- Tips from an expert

Yesterday myself and 13 other curly mama's and papa's, spent the afternoon at the Afro Hair Salon on Commercial Drive in Vancouver.  Emy, the stylist put on a curly haircare and styling session for interested families.  It was a fun event and I think everyone took away some key curly hair tips.
Here is a summary of some of my notes from the session.  Some of these tips apply more to 4+ hair types- which I've indicated.  She also had some great ideas for styling short hair and encouraging curly hair to grow more.

Washing Curly Hair: 

1) for 4+ curly hair types, also condition first, then shampoo, and then condition again.
2) Shampoo should always be conditioning shampoo, conditioner should always be detangling conditioner
3) for 4+ curly hair types, section hair off into small squares and really ensure the conditioner and shampoo is worked into each section.  Otherwise the curls stick together and you don't actually shampoo the hair to the depth required.
4) When deep conditioning, leave the conditioner on overnight with a sleep cap then lightly rinse out in the morning
5) Shampoo once every 1-2 weeks, but not needed more often than this

Combing Curly Hair:

1) Always comb from the bottom up
2) Before combing, moisturize the hair with a spray bottle.  The spray should have 2/3 water with the remaining 1/3 containing hair oil (can use olive) and conditioner
3) Comb using a tangle teaser

Cutting Curly Hair:

1) Curly hair should be cut every 4-6 weeks, maximum 8 weeks. Otherwise the damaged ends continue to work their way up the hair and lead to more breakage.  This was a big "oops" for me.  As a curly mama, I never cut my hair.  Maybe once a year if I get up the courage.  And curlygirl has never had a haircut.... we shall be making a salon appointment in the near future.

Sleeping:

1) I know I've discussed sleep caps before, but she really emphasized the importance of these.  Again, here is where we buy our sleep caps and they are great, durable and support a good cause: http://africasleeps.com/

Styling Curly Hair:

1) Rotate your parts.  If you continually part in the same places the hair will break off along the part lines and create little bald spots
2) Emy uses a blow dryer with comb on the end to straighten really curly hair before styling. Personally I'm terrified of using hot air to dry curls so I don't think I'll be using this method, but when she demonstrated it on some of the kids you could see it really made a difference for the styling of their hair.
3) Don't try to cornrow with hair too wet- this is something I can really see I'm doing wrong.  Right now I'm styling curlygirls hair when it's wet, and ensuring I have my spray bottle prepared if it gets too dry, but Emy suggested that dryer hair would help the braids hold.  She also used a locking putty on the semi-dry hair to help the braids stay in place.  I'm going to try this this week.

Overall I think we all learned we were doing some things really well and that we could improve on some things as well.

One of my key take home messages was to choose a hair line and stick to it.  It's easier than having multitudes of products.  As it stands, my favourite hair product line is the Taliah Waajid curly hair line.  Love the scents and performance of most everything I've tried.

Wanted to also say a big thank you to Nandi Kids for sponsoring our event!  They were generous enough to send samples of products to our curly mama's and papa's to try.  It's fantastic we have such a great community of curly families across Canada!





Monday, October 8, 2012

More curly styles- and managing curly hair as it gets longer

I'm finding curlygirls hair is getting harder to manage.  It's quite long now, easily past her shoulders when pulled straight, but it is still a 3b/3c curl.  I'm also finding that her hair is getting thicker- so more little short curls are growing in and keep falling out of braids and styles.

Her hair is only lasting 2-3 days/ style and I thought I was doing something wrong until I ran into another curlymama with hair curlier than mine who said that for 3b/3c  curls you do need to re-do styles every 2-3 days, that this is normal. Only when hair gets past the 4curl mark does it tend to stay longer in braids and other sets.  This made me feel so much better... but now I'm back to the managing challenge.  Because her hair is longer it's taking me much longer to get it styled, 30-60 minutes for a full head of braids and 20minutes for an "easy style".  I can only imagine this will continue to get tougher as her hair grows longer.. but because it isn't curly enough I need to re-do the style in 1-2 days. So it's a lot of time spent in the "Salon chez nous".

So I think I need to come up with a better style regime... how do other curlymama's manage?
Right now I'm thinking:

Sunday: Set a 2-3 day style (Veil braids, cornrows)
Monday: done
Tuesday: evaluate, may need to be re-done
Wednesday: 1-2 day style (ponies, or twists)
Thursday: evaluate, may do an easy style
Friday: Easy style
Saturday: depends on the day.

I'm hoping that once her hair grows in thicker I should be able to maintain a style a bit longer and it will make my styling life much easier...

Here are some photos of recent styles.

The first was one that I saw done on a little ones hair (was a 4b curl).  Her hair was much thicker so it looked really full in this style.  I did like this style a lot, a fun way to do a mohawk (or "frohawk).  Evie thought it was fun and was flipping her beads all day.  The style lasted for 3 days, but by the end of day 3 the hair was falling out on the sides and little pieces were falling out of the braids.  You can see that my parting and sectioning needs to get better (lol), but I'm finding it tough to make the sectioning even when I have so many little hairs to try and pull into the braids.  I guess practice practice practice.
Curlygirl will probably look back at this style and laugh at me.



This second style was one I did for Thanksgiving dinner.  I created a side part, did cornrows that swept up sideways into ponies with beads on the end of the braids.  Cute style, one that we do a lot but only lasts for 2 days.